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Dating
and a Movie Again (by Heather Jaillett)
Are
you tired of the same old routine first dates? Need
a change from the dinner and a movie routine? Why
not do something that gives you some insight into each
other's personality and is interesting? Not that
I'm totally against dinner and a movie as a first date
or even a tenth date. There is the benefit that
you don't have to think about what you're going to say
next for at least 90 minutes (even longer if it's a Kevin
Costner epic). I just think that a change
needs to occur when I've seen all of the movies playing
this month at the local megaplex. Another downside
to dinner and a movie is that it can be inconvenient for
those of us who work the nightshift. So I am offering
the following ideas to inspire you to get out of the dating
rut, whether it¡¯s your first or tenth.
For the romantic, a picnic is an ideal choice as long
as the weather cooperates. For inclimate weather
you may have to get creative in your location, but don't
give up hope. Traditionally, picnicking is something
that established couples do, but don't be afraid to suggest
it early in your romance. In addition to having
as simple or elaborate meal as you choose, you can bring
along a Frisbee or ball to play catch. You can also
take a walk. For the less ambitious or weather bound,
you can people watch or share a paper (Sunday papers work
especially well). Another benefit is that daylight
dating adds a little bit of safety, and you can always
have an escape excuse if things aren't going the way you
planned (Examples: I'm babysitting for a friend,
I'm having my teeth cleaned, I have to have dinner with
my parents - you get the idea.). People also seem
to be more honest about themselves in the cold light of
day, which is always refreshing. Finally, there
is the benefit that you can always continue the date into
the evening if things are going exceptionally well.
Another great date place is a theme park. If you
live near one of the larger ones, like Disneyland, it
can be expensive. Call and ask about local resident
discounts, and if you have friends that work there ask
if they can get you a passes at a reduced rate.
Don't overlook the smaller carnivals and festivals in
your area. It can be significantly less expensive
and equally entertaining. These sort of places have
a little of everything, so you should be able to find
something the two of you can enjoy. This is also
a great choice for that first date with his or her children.
Sports and hobbies are also excellent dating opportunities.
Are you a member of a club? Invite your next date
to a club activity. Mountain biking, hiking, in-line
skating, tennis, or any joint hobby can be excellent first
date material. They provide an activity that you
both have a common interest in. Also, there is no
better way to bring out the dark side of people than competitive
sports. Wouldn't you like to see that up front?
You can also impress your date with your skill, or get
a few pointers from him or her.
The whole point though is to do something that is interesting
and allows for you to get to know each other better.
Even if you don't click on a romantic level, you can always
have an enjoyable afternoon that won't leave you feeling
like you should have done your laundry instead.
Heather Jaillett is a freelance writer from Washington
State. After extensive dating she finally found
her soul mate. She still advises many on dating
solutions, and is constantly researching relationships
and romance. Exploring ways to add romance to electronic
communication is also another pursuit she enjoys.
Heather Jaillett writes for DrDating - a web site for
anyone looking for love online. We have hundreds of articles,
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